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Wednesday, December 25, 2013

Just One of Our Many Miracles...for Cindy from Jimae


Long about seven years ago
We still had a son at home
He had served his family and his God
And now pursued his education.

His evenings and weekends were spent at home
Or at his work or school.
Rarely a word or action
Indicated he would rather be elsewhere.

Then his job was changed
To the Movies 9, quite aways away.
Clear out in somewhere called Sandy
And soon we saw a change.

He seemed anxious to get to work
Just a little bit early or coming home somewhat late.
Slight changes in his attitudes
And a lightness in his step.

One night he told his mother
He had an important event on Thursday-
What was it ? That's right -
A real life date.

The kind that required planning
A setting apart of time
A question to be asked
But need to happen fast.

You see, our forthcoming miracle
Was leaving for a 6 month stint
Out somewhere in the South called Louisville
To work and learn and grow.




“She” was leaving soon and would be going-
Gone for who knows how long-
To work and learn and grow
And our son wanted to make an impression.

That she might consider continuing
Their friendship that was just beginning-
Well, she left, was gone and we notoiced
He was around at home again.

However, he was often on the phone at nights
And kinda mopey there times after.
It was almost Easter and he came to me
And said “I'd like to send a package.”

Well, I asked him, what would you like to send?
I don't know – just something kinda cute.
Not jewelry or flowers, that's too much
So please help me figure it out.

At the grocery store, I saw the perfect thing!
The “cutest” thing of all -
It would take some manouvering and boxing
and some extensive packaging.

But overall it didn't really weigh much -
So back to the store I went with my son in tow
“Are you sure Mom - A girl would really like this?”
“Trust me son – it's perfect.”

And so it was that it arrived
In Louisville two days later.
Just in time for Easter
A giant yellow duck!

Bigger than a breadbox –
Actually bigger than a living room chair.
And as far as I know the story goes
That the first response was from her broher.

To his parents he made a call-
You won't believe what came in the mail
It's something just bizarre -
A giant yellow duck!

I think this guy might like her-
Our little sister, Cindy.
Why else would a guy fuss like that
It just really isn't natural.

Well it certainly encuraged the relationship,
And soon she was coming home.
They got to know each other better,
They dated and played and soon became our daughter.

Well, time passed and they finished their educations
And then presented us with the most beautiful baby boy.
He was perfect...tiny toes and nose
Big eyes and lots of dark hair.

But as our James grew older
We recognized delays and were eventually told
That he would be slow to walk and talk
But oh - how he could smile!

And laugh right out loud with the best of us-
So, with smiles and hugs for both grandmas-
Singing Songs and blowing kisses
He was our precious darling boy.

This year I was honored to think about
And serve our miracle, Cindy.
I wanted to show her my love
And appreciaiton for the beautiful person she is.

If I could just do a couple of things...
To make her job somewhat easier.
I wanted to give her a few minutes of peace
Or a little time on own her own.

And so I watched for ways -
To have Grandma time with James
A few times to the park and the swimming pool
And also an amusement park.

Best of all was my privelage
To pick him up after school at his bus
And then take him home to his family
Just me and him in my white car.

Each time I had a little gift for him
(And in this case it wasn't candy)
Instead something he loves with little wheels
Something small to hold in his hands.

I wanted to be his “Santa”
And found him the very perfect gift.
A big yellow school bus that he could sit in and pretend to drive
That also had a mini roadway and lots of cars.

Other acts of service this year,
Such as serving the families at the shelter-
But my true opportunity came in November,
When I learned of a class – especially for those
Who love a child with Autism.

And so I enrolled and attended,
With Dad along the first time.
I loved the learning experience, the stories and examples
And will continue another five times.

And so this year has ended.
A new year will be coming along-
And I will continue thinking about
And daily praying for you and your sweet family-
Just One Of Our Many Miracles.



3 comments:

  1. Love this! What great service. Love special Gma/James time.

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  2. Aunt Mae, my Cole still talks about Grammy taking him to his appts. For a year, when I was doing 3 days a week at the hospital, my mom took over one of the days each week. Tuesdays became the day I could breath, the day I could focus. It was a wonderful gift I will cherish and remember always. You are an amazing grandma and you are making a difference!

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