So, what do you do to show service that parallels the guy
who serves everyone around him? …… I guess you can start by serving everyone
around you? Man Wes, you set the bar
really high!
Well, showing how I served everyone around me seemed a
little too vague and a little too daunting.
So, I started by serving the man himself. Yes, Wes now has instructions on how to
become the bionic man he has always longed to be- using his brand new,
pain-free knees! Alright, so that really
is a gross exaggeration. But the intent
was there….
With Wes in mind, the real search was to find a genuine need
that could only be filled if I chose to go above and beyond in the name of
Wes. I thought of his missionary service
in Brazil. With that in mind, Laura found a charity in
Orem that collects soccer shoes for boys and girls in Brazil. However, Brazilian charities apparently are
very good at advertising, but not so good at returning phone calls.
So the search continued.
The genuine need finally did present itself in the form of a
young missionary from our former ward. Although
we do not attend there any more, we had heard about a family we knew from that ward that was
going through a divorce. It deeply
pained me to learn that one of the young men I knew as his Bishop had managed
to find himself being dragged through the divorce of his parents literally
about a month before he left on his mission.
I had hoped to attend his farewell to see how he was doing, but I had
just received a new calling in our current ward and had Sunday commitments that
conflicted with the farewell.
I called his Bishop (a good friend of mine) and tried to get
an email address to possibly reach out and see how he was doing. The Bishop agreed to look into it, but then
never found an email address.
As tender mercies would have it, a few days later, I decided
to make a quick stop at Costco in West Valley on the way home from working in
Tooele. I rarely get out of work that
early in the day, and even more rare was to go to that particular store. I simply needed to get some light bulbs that
happened to only be on sale in Salt Lake Costco stores and this store was on my
way at 1:00 pm in the afternoon. While
approaching the light bulb isle, I came across this same young man and his
father. He was getting ready to go the
MTC the very next day. In our brief
conversation, I was not able to get his email address, nor discuss the family’s
tragedy, but I offered him my email address and asked him to write if he found
a free moment.
A few weeks later.... from the missionary training center in Mexico, I received an
email. In it, I found a very faithful,
but openly discouraged young man. He knows
the gospel is true and that the Lord loves him, but is trying to find a way to
forget about problems back at home and make sense of a world that is now
drastically different in every way (new situation with his family, new
situation on a mission, learning a new and difficult language, teaching people
in a totally different country, etc.).
Though I am not a good letter writer, nor do I have much
free time on Sundays to write, I decided in honor of Wes to make this a commitment
to this Elder in need. Based on the
circumstances of how the Lord helped me get in contact with this young man, my
guess is that the Lord also approves of this service project.
Thanks Wes for giving me the opportunity to open my eyes and
look for the opportunity to fill a need in your honor!
This is such a tender story Kev! I know Erik felt similar to your missionary when he left.
ReplyDeleteAwe...so nice! it makes me happy to see that our family loves my husband so much. Wes is always serving other, including me every single day. I sure love him so much. Thanks Kevan for this beautiful post on wes's name.
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